Saying goodbye to the past and looking forward to the future

Today was a day full of reflection.

On Saturday  we were involved in a four vehicle accident while on our way to pick up our oldest child from taking his ACT test. Thankfully, we were not severely injured, nor were any of the other passengers of the other vehicles. Unfortunately, our Expedition died a sudden tragic death and had to be towed away.

After dropping my husband off at work today, I headed over to the tow lot so that I could finish emptying out the rest of our belongings. This turned out to be a very sad moment for me with several tears (tears of joy and tears of sadness). This truck has been with us since my youngest came into this world seven years ago. This truck has been my companion on many road trips, and has always been extremely reliable. I knew that the day would come when we would finally decide to trade it in, but I just didn’t expect it to happen in the manner that took place, nor as quick as it did.

The reality all boils down to the fact that we hold on to things a little more than we should. I guess what I’m saying is that without change, we all become complacent with our lives. We should embrace change even when that means you will lose a close companion, albeit a vehicle, but nonetheless a member of your family. With change, some obstacles are bound to be discovered along the path. For instance, a new vehicle payment, but without obstacles, that path would get boring.

I am looking forward to the future because everyday is a gift to be alive, and I will continue to stay positive.

Great things that I have discovered because of this ordeal has included:

  1. Always make sure your vehicle is vacuumed immediately after each and every road trip 🙂
  2. Life, health, and happiness, is far more important than a vehicle being smashed up
  3. Embrace change
  4. Staying positive will keep you sane
  5. Family always comes first

In loving memory of our Ford Expedition

 

 

 

Just in case you were wondering, our son was picked up by a family member. It was very worrisome since he didn’t have his cell phone (no electronics are allowed during the exam) so there was no way to inform him that there was a change in plans on who will be picking him up.

What have you had to say goodbye to in order to move on to the future? Please tell us your story!

 

Being a mom

Mom and Child

Being a mom is the easiest and the most difficult thing you will ever do

It’s a job that you don’t get paid for. It’s a job that never ends. It’s a job that, no matter how prepared you think you are, you find out that you know nothing about it all. It involves sleepless nights. Constant worrying. Changing diapers. Potty training. Cleaning walls that have been decorated with the latest in art techniques. It involves singing, dancing, and just being plain silly. It means kissing a boo-boo to make it all better. It means cleaning up vomit. It means making sure everyone is fed, clothed, and tucked into bed.

Being a mom isn’t just being a mom

It’s being a best friend, story teller, a shoulder to cry on, cheerleader, teacher, maid, chef, scientist, artist, historian, hero, mathematician, builder, visionary, nurse/doctor, chauffeur, philosopher, plumber, mechanic, protector, disciplinarian – just to name a few.

What being a mom is not

It doesn’t care what kind of clothes you wear, it doesn’t matter what kind of shoes you buy, or whether you wear makeup or not. It doesn’t care if you’re curvy, thin, tall, or short. Being a mom doesn’t involve itself in the music you listen to, mistakes you may have made in the past, or when others don’t see life the same as you.

We as moms don’t realize what our job title really means until we take on this role. What I can tell you is that with all the times that I think my mountain of strength is gone, all it takes is a hug from your child and your mountain of strength has just grown exponentially. We don’t need much; our love is unconditional. Just seeing the smiles on our children’s faces is enough to lighten even the darkest of places. The tears our children shed is more than our heart can bare. We never ask for anything in return, nor do we expect anything in return.

No matter where you live, what language you speak, whether your a stay-at-home mom, or a working mom: being a mom is the greatest experience we as women will ever know.

Truly, all of us moms hold the future of the world in the palm of our hands.

Mom and Baby Hands
Be proud of who you are. I can guarantee that you are the world to your little ones, even if they are all grown up and have children of their own.

 

Let’s go Treasure Hunting!

Every child loves the idea of finding lost treasure.

Treasure MapOur family likes packing a lunch to go on our day trips to go treasure hunting – better known as Geocaching. We own two handheld GPS units – one for the younger ones to use, and one for the older two to use.

This is a great and simple way of going out and exploring the outdoors. What kid doesn’t like that? You are on a mission to find as many hidden treasures as you can. The looks on your children’s faces when they have discovered the “treasure”, is priceless. No matter how many you find, they are all different and the excitement never goes away. One of our favorite trips was when we found this site that looked like a pterodactyl nest had been raided and knocked over. It truly was unique and amazing how the owners of that treasure made it look like it was part of  the surroundings.

We have so much fun letting the kids navigate our path. Occasionally, they have taken us off course, but that’s all part of the fun. Some caches have clues that you have to figure out in order to get the coordinates. This is awesome for the kids – they all start brainstorming to solve the clues. It’s teamwork with lots of laughs.

Geocaching, for those that don’t know, involve using a GPS unit to find hidden treasures called caches. When you find the cache, you write your profile name on the log book. Later, you will log your find under your account at the web site. Most caches have small trinkets in them, and sometimes you will get lucky and find a trackable object. Trackables are items that travel – you take it, log this action on it’s web page, and then place it in another cache, logging that as well. You can also see a map of where this item has been, along with the logs of each time it has been picked up and dropped off by someone.  You must remember that if you take something, you need to leave something in return. One more important rule is that you want to make sure that you leave the cache just like you found it! After your day is over, you head home and enter your finds on the site.

It is a very cheap and simple hobby to get into. My family would highly recommend it to anyone and everyone.

For those that haven’t heard of Geocaching before, you should definitely check out: http://www.geocaching.com

They have a free basic membership, where all you need is your email address. They also have the paid annual subscription (which is not required) that is actually very cheap – $30.00 / year, which is $2.50 a month. The premium membership gives you a few extras that might be nice for you, if and when (you will), you get more experienced and decide you really like it.

All of the caches are hidden by members, and found by members. You never have to worry about never having enough to find. These caches are hidden everywhere across the world, with new ones added all of the time. The only thing you will find upsetting is that there never is enough time.

Our family has a designated “treasure hunting backpack” that is packed with all kinds of goodies. A few of these items are:

  • Two – GPS handheld units
  • first-aid kit
  • medicines: Benadryl – adult and child, Tylenol – adult and child
  • flashlight
  • bug repellent
  • batteries
  • pen/paper
  • granola bars
  • water bottles
  • little trinkets
  • mini shovel

This is such an amazing hobby. You will find that your family will be anxiously planning your next trip. A few of the great things that you will get out of Geocaching with your family includes:

  • treasure hunting
  • quality family time
  • learning (and teaching your kids) navigation skills and how to use a GPS unit
  • exploring the great outdoors
  • exercise

Please check it out and Happy Treasure Hunting!

Family Fun Night Activities

Nothing is more fun than having a night full of laughs and quality family time. My children always look forward to having this kind of night. This is a time where everyone is hanging out doing something special and not worrying about anything else. The great thing about family fun nights is that you don’t have to spend a ton of money on it.

I have made a list of our top four category activities that we like to do. Within each category, I have also broken down more specifically different things we do as a family to have fun on special nights. Remember these are just suggestions of things that work great for us.

1. Dinner and a movie: Yes, it is that simple. My children like to turn our family room into a makeshift movie theater with the exception that we have blankets and we all cuddle up. Of course, you don’t want to forget about the popcorn.

2. Game night without the tv: This is where a family has many choices to choose from and truly it’s a personal preference but I have listed off a few ideas

A. Card games-Rummy, Go fish, Slam, Uno, 31, Cribbage

B. Dice games- Yahtzee, Farkle(also known as 10,000)

C. Board games- Monopoly, Scrabble, Dominoes, Jenga, Apples to Apples

D. Puzzles- I know this might sound boring but we all enjoy it in our household

3. Video game night: This is a time when I truly appreciate video game playing. My family owns each of the game consoles. I am going to list some great games to play as a family for each console.

A. Nintendo Wii: Playground, Wii Sports (bowling), Mario Kart, Madagascar Kartz

B. Playstation 3 without Playstation Move: ModNation Racers, Rockband, Guitar Hero, Little Big Planet, Little Big Planet2

C. Playstation 3 with Playstation Move: Start the Party (absolutely hilarious), Sports Champion,

D. XBox 360 with Kinect: Kinect Adventures, Dance Central

4. Making treats: This is a no brainer since all kids including us adults like treats. My four children are always so excited and just itching to help in anyway even with the cleanup part afterwards. Making treats is not something that has to be difficult. Great ideas include, baking cookies, cupcakes, Rice Krispy treats, Ice cream sundaes, and making Smoothies.

In conclusion, this list is to give ideas. Your options are not limited to my list but limited to your imagination. The goal is to have fun with your family. The most important piece of advice I can give you is to remember to laugh hard, laugh long, and laugh together as a family.